Estranged wife of one time pop
singer-turned pastor and politician, Stephanie, has opened up in what caused
the crash in her marriage with Chris Okotie.
After Chris Okotie, including members
of his Household of God church, have refused to speak with anyone concerning
the matter, Stephanie took to social network, Twitter where she spoke at
length, exposing the truth behind their crashed marriage.
According to her post on the social
network, Twitter, Stephanie Adie Henshaw blamed the break up on the lies from
members of the Church, saying “until the day Okotie asked me for a separation
which led to my packing out of our matrimonial home, there has never for once
been an argument between us. Chris is loving husband who respected and adored
me”.
Here is the full text of her post;
“Today makes it three weeks I was asked for a separation and a week four days I
packed out. Romans:8:28 “All things work together for good for those who love
God and are called according to His purpose for them.”
I am shocked as most people are, as
there has not been an argument in my home. In over a year we have been as happy
as everyone thought we were. I wait because I know in time, God will make known
what has gone wrong. Chris Okotie and I have been friends for twenty years. I
have loved and served him until the last minute of our separation .”
According to her she never saw the
separation coming and blamed what broke her home to jealousy and lies from
those who hated her in the church.
“Twenty years, I have known a man, 15
years, we have been the closest friends. I prepared all his meals for 10 years,
including the four years we were married. The day I was asked to leave, I
prepared his meal, served it and left. For the four years, he never fell ill
but today, I am called all sorts of names, ‘witch’, and ‘mermaid spirit’.
“I have served Jesus with clean hands
and a clean heart. I have loved all that have come my way and if I do not live
through this pain and hurt as sure as Jesus lives, my children will see my
vindication.”
She continues in another post: “Lies,
not from the world but the church; accusations not from the world, but the
church. Where are the spirit filled Christians, the ones who fear and hear the
Lord. My husband loves and adores me; he is not the one saying these things,
the enemies from within who hate me.
“They hate the mercy God had on me.
So they come up with all kinds of lies. My going can bring one Mrs.Okotie, but
what happens to the rest of you? You bring shame to the body of Christ out of
your jealousy and selfish desire and in the process expose your pastor. The
work he has to do cost Jesus his life, don’t joke with it. Our friendship is
not based on marriage. You manipulated things at the expense of God’s work and
name. It is not about me, it has never been: it is about the will of God.”
In another expression, Stephanie asks
God to vindicate her in the presence of her accusers. “Have mercy on me o God,
have mercy! I look to you for protection. I will hide beneath the shadow of
your name until the danger passes by. Vindicate me Lord.
“All things are open before you,
righteous judge. I remain still, speak on my behalf. I submit to the end. I did
all I was asked to do, Lord. I left the home blameless before you. I have loved
but have not been loved. I have given and not received but that is contrary to
your word, Lord. So, today I ask your word be made manifest in my life.”
Vanguard, By Opeoluwani Ogunjimi
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